From the moment my partner knows my past, we have been going through a crisis. Even though he is my first sex partner, he cannot accept previous boyfriends. She still resents me for what I used to be, but she doesn't want to part with me. I love him very much and I don't want to lose it, but I can't do it anymore, I can't stand it myself What can I do to forgive me?
It is important whether the Lady accepts her past herself. The past cannot be changed and I advise you not to take responsibility for your partner's experiences. Unfortunately, he has to deal with it himself. If he does not want to part with you, it looks as if he wants to be with you in order to regret and make excuses, while you are completely helpless in this matter. Besides, I cope with asking if you want to part with him or not.
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Józef SawickiA specialist in individual therapies with many years of psychotherapeutic experience. In clinical work, she deals with psychotic patients. He is interested in the philosophy of the East. More at www.firma-jaz.pl.
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