I have been a sober alcoholic for 3 years. I am treated for neurosis, I was taking sedatives, which I stopped a month ago. As long as I drank, my sex life was weak, or almost gone. Since I am not drinking, I have become more physically fit, etc., I am eating he althier. I have a partner who I like very much, we live together. However, we do not work well in bed, I just hardly ever get an erection from the beginning. Now it is good for a while, and sometimes for a few days nothing goes wrong despite trying. Even after Permengo and Maxigrago there was no great effect, I could only forget about any more repetitions once and then. I ordered a Vigrax online, do you think it will help? I will add that I am only 25 years old.

Self-ordering "medications" on the Internet is not wise. It is not known what is in them, so whether they can really help. The most sensible way to seek help is to see a sexologist. You may need to start with a testosterone test or do some other basic research. I urge you to make a quick decision about visiting a sexologist, because each unsuccessful attempt generates anxiety before the next one and the situation deteriorates secondarily. Please also talk to your partner if she sees a problem in it.

Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.

Bohdan Bielski

Psychologist, specialist with 30 years of experience, trainer of psychosocial skills, expert psychologist of the District Court in Warsaw.

Main areas of activity:mediation services, family counseling, care for a person in a crisis situation, manager training.

First of all, it focuses on building good relationships based on understanding and respect. He undertook numerous crisis interventions and took care of people in a deep crisis.

He lectured in forensic psychology at the Faculty of Psychology of SWPS in Warsaw, at the University of Warsaw and the University of Zielona Góra.

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