There is a girl at school that I like very much. I have some friends who go to class with her, but they are not friends of mine that I can trust. I don't know how to talk to this girl in such a way that I don't get rejected right away. After I get to know her, I don't know how to act because I don't want to look like a lunatic.
This questioning is an eternal problem. The more we think about it, the more fear the eyes have. This is ordinary and natural. Think if there is anything you would like to say or propose? Maybe there are places where she goes and you could start - interest clubs, sports clubs, extracurricular activities, etc. There the common issues will come up. When a conversation is going on in your presence, you can always have an opinion about it and interfere with it. It works. And if not, then just - hello, I'm Filip, do you know me? I'd like to know you more. Can I walk you home after school today? Can I count on an after-class meeting? And already. This is also a test. If a girl rejects a normal boyfriend after a normal conversation, it means that there is something wrong with her (e.g. she walks with her nose in the clouds and has a sense of superiority) and she may not be worth being interested in.
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Piotr Mosakeducational psychologist and business psychologist, business trainer, psychotherapist, university lecturer.
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