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Still worried that my girlfriend talks to her friends, she doesn't write to me very often. I know I am doing wrong, but I still have such jealous thoughts.
Jealousy of a loved one is a common feeling that accompanies us. The problem, however, is not to "go crazy". Know that jealousy occurs when we do not trust someone, we are not sure of our partner's feelings, loy alty. You seem to be the type that would like to have exclusive contacts with girls. In the past, to ensure this, men imprisoned women (preferably in towers) and chained them in chastity belts. These methods are no longer used today, because in the civilized world there is universal recognition of the freedom of the human individual and the right to decide on the choice of society and interlocutors. By the way, if you say that the girl shows no interest in you, maybe your feelings are one-sided? Maybe it's love without reciprocity? If you like a girl and you want her to be equally fascinated by you, you must charm and interest her with something. Since he does not write and does not engage in conversations, maybe you do not have common topics? There is also the possibility that your feeling intimidates her and makes it even more difficult for her to communicate with you. I don't know you, I don't know the whole situation, so it's hard for me to judge. You'll know best for yourself. Also, remember that you will not be able to force a girl to love, write, or give up contacts with other people.
How to win her over? There are thousands of ways, but in order to make the right choices, you need to know the girl's tastes and psyche. Some are impressed by their intellect, sense of humor, and others by their physical fitness. One likes the talkative, the so-called the souls of the party, others like quiet, unobtrusive and gentle men, e.g. dreamers, romantics, respecting the mood, etc. The variety of joint activities is also huge (walks, cinema, sports, talks, etc.). Jealousy disappears when you know each other well, you respect each other's needs and preferences, and you know that other contacts are the most ordinary manifestations of life, not the pursuit of betrayal. So many comments and truths about emotional relationships. Please think about them. If this is not enough for you - write with more details.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Barbara Śreniowska-SzafranEducatorwith many years of experience.
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