Hello, I have 5 years of marriage experience, very successful sex life, no problems. A week ago, my husband accidentally reminded me that during oral sex I have millions of sperm moving in my mouth (and stomach). I can't explain it to myself, convince myself that it's nothing like that, and I can't imagine our life without it …
Hello
You have not written anything about the feelings that accompany this situation, I can only guess that it may be a kind of disgust before ejaculating sperm in your mouth or swallowing it. Regarding this feeling, I would suggest when you ejaculate, remove the penis from your mouth and let the ejaculation take place outside your mouth, for example, the sperm may end up on your partner's belly. When you take your penis out of your mouth, you can stimulate the penis with your hand for a while, before and during ejaculation. For your partner, these experiences will certainly also be satisfying. For now, please do not force yourself to do activities that evoke negative feelings in you, as this can only aggravate them. For a more detailed answer, I would need more information about the feelings and thoughts surrounding the situation. Regards
Magdalena Bogdaniuk
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Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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