We are a married couple with 32 years of experience. My husband is two years older than me. I always believed my husband, we loved each other. Our relationship is not easy because my husband works abroad. For economic reasons, because we raised three children. I always believed him that he was faithful to me. I never cheated on him and thought our love was very enduring after all. Recently, I discovered that he had set up an account on a dating site. He sends kisses to other women. It doesn't matter, she says, it's just fun. However, I feel cheated and betrayed. Especially since he wrote that he was separated. It seemed to me that our life, although unsystematic, was going well. Whenever possible, he comes home, or I come to him. I love him very much and I don't know what to do. Should I take it marginally, or does it mean that his love for me is dying out? I am full of anxiety. We have adult children. I'm afraid this is the beginning of the end. His father also left his mother after 30 years of marriage. I can't leave everything and go to him, because I also work professionally. I am asking for advice, what to do, how to save my marriage? I am in despair, I do not want anything. I told him he had cheated and humiliated me. But he doesn't want to understand it. He apologized to me, but he did not cancel the account.
You have the right to feel this way, an account on such a portal is set up for a purpose, not so-so. Your husband should understand that this situation is not without significance for you. Unfortunately, it is difficult to talk about it remotely. I think you should take a leave of absence and go to your husband's place to clarify this situation. As a wife, you have the right to expect him to cancel your account. He should also honestly explain why he is doing it. A long-distance relationship is difficult to maintain, maybe your husband lacks your presence.
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Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples.She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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