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I am concerned that my boyfriend and I have hardly ever had sex in recent months. Sometimes, when I tried to initiate a rapprochement, it was explained by fatigue. The fact that he had a lot of work and not a single night of sleep behind him. Now he's back to his normal lifestyle and he's okay, but in the last week we happened twice in the past week that he didn't have an erection during intercourse. I wonder if I'm sexually attractive to him. My previous partner always wanted sex and maybe that's why I'm a little surprised now that a man doesn't always want to make love. What should I do? Do you think that sex in a relationship may be of less importance to a man?
Lack of desire for sex in men is an increasingly common problem faced by women. It is also usually the case that women blame themselves for this state of affairs. Meanwhile, the cause most often lies elsewhere. Both the lack of desire for sex and erection problems may be due to biological and psychological reasons.
One of the most common psychological causes is stress and exhaustion with daily duties and work. Other reasons include - conflicts in the relationship, unexplained quarrels, complaints, as well as boredom, everyday life, monotony in the relationship.
Biological causes include hormonal disorders - it is worth checking the level of hormones, in particular testosterone, age - concerns older men , after the age of 50, diseases - diabetes, hypertension, depression and drugs used in the above diseases. These symptoms can be aggravated by unhe althy lifestyle - such as smoking, drinking large amounts of alcohol, lack of exercise, poor diet, sleep disturbances. Determining the cause of the partner's decrease in libido usually requires a detailed interview by a specialist, then an appropriate method of treatment can be applied.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. Works bothindividually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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