I have a "little" big problem. Well, sometimes she doesn't feel much during intercourse (I can't feel my penis in her vagina), which is very frustrating. My partner has a small penis, about 10.5 cm in circumference and about 14 cm long. Is it this small circumference that causes weaker sensations during intercourse, or is the problem elsewhere? Can the problem of such a small circuit be solved somehow? She would not like it to negatively affect our relationship
Perhaps this is a size mismatch, although a 14-centimeter penis is not small, it is the average size of a penis. To improve your sensations, you can start exercising the Kegel muscles - these are the muscles located around the perineum. Exercising these muscles has many positive effects, in addition to improving sexual feelings, including reducing the risk of wetting incontinence in old age, increasing vaginal flexibility, so that childbirth can proceed more efficiently and faster. You should start strengthening these muscles with a simple exercise - while urinating, please stop urinating for a moment - the muscles that make it possible are the Kegel muscles. Repeating this exercise for a while will make you feel in control of these muscles and you will be able to tense and relax them in any situation while sitting, standing and lying down. The more you practice them, the better results you can achieve. During intercourse, you will be able to tighten these muscles, the vagina will then become narrower, which will be pleasant for both you and your partner. Another cause of faint feeling in the vagina may be that your erogenous sphere is simply not there - that is, the place on your body that responds most strongly to sexual stimulation. For many women, it is not the vagina that is the most sensitive area, but the clitoris. So let's make sure that this is not the case in your situation as well. Then it is enough to change the style of caressing a little and during intercourse also focus on stimulating the clitoris.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. Works bothindividually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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