The problem is with my man. We've been together for a year, I'm 22, he's 27. We don't live together, but we see each other quite often. At the beginning of the relationship, he told me that he happened to watch pornographic movies. I understood it, the more so as I am his first girlfriend and sexual partner. Recently I asked him if he was still watching - he said that very rarely anymore. I found it not true, and moreover, he watches pornographic films several times a week, several times a day. I feel unattractive and lied to. He says he would like to stop it, but that it is stronger than him. I asked if he would like to make a difference in our sex, but he says everything is perfect and I get him very excited.
There is nothing wrong with watching pornographic videos from time to time, especially when the man has no way to let off his drive with his partner. Unfortunately, it sometimes happens that a man becomes addicted to pornography and it seems that your partner is in this situation. This is evidenced by the high frequency of watching, watching despite the fact that he could have sex with the Lady at that time and the statement that it is stronger than him. Your attractiveness has nothing to do with this situation here. Addiction occurs firstly because it is a simple and quick way to relieve sexual desire and secondly because the man also relieves stress, e.g. related to work. Just as an alcoholic reaches for a glass to relax, your husband reaches for pornography. In order to solve this problem, you should visit a sexologist because, as he admits himself, the husband cannot cope with this problem alone. A specialist's help is needed here.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. Conducts diagnostics and supportpsychological for transsexual people.
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