My boyfriend was dating another woman for 3 months but he wasn't having sex with her. Instead, he lied to me to see her and denied acquaintance even when I had evidence. We are together for a year and a half, we do not live together, but we see each other every day … It seemed to me that everything is fine, he also says that it is great and he has no idea what the prank was, where it came from and why … I promise it is will not happen again, he says he loves me and now he understood it … What should I do? Forgive him? Finish it?
You have to decide for yourself whether you are ready to forgive your partner or not, unfortunately no one will do it for you.
Please carefully consider whether you are able to forgive and forget about that situation and whether you still trust your partner. If so, then you should close that stage of your life and start a new one, not going back to the past, re-building friendship and trust between you.
However, if you feel that your affection for your partner has expired and you are unable to forgive him and trust him again, it will be difficult for you to maintain this relationship. Then you would have to think about ending the relationship.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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