I'm an average sexually married woman… I feel excited watching adult videos of anal fisting. Of course, I do not see myself in this role, but I dream that I would penetrate a man with my hand or an artificial penis … It got to such an extent that I am sitting on the Internet and looking for people willing … I don't know what to do!
There is nothing wrong withdiversifying your sex lifevariousunusual forms of caressingprovided that they do not become the only form of release of tension sexual.
So if you found a partner who would be willing to engage in such behavior from time to time, while striving for classic intercourse, I do not see any pathology here (the betrayal of your husband is already your personal decision and is related to your moral principles).
On the other hand, if you noticed that traditional sex is no longer interesting for you and you are only obsessed with thisunusual form of sex , at the same time having remorse and feeling bad about it, then you should visit a sexologist and consult him about the situation.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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