I am 27 years old and have been in a relationship for four years. I believe that we fit together very well and we are good together. But I feel sorry for my partner, because I would like our relationship to continue to develop, i.e. I think about a joint apartment, a proposal, a wedding … and my partner, although he claims that he loves me and wants to, does nothing in this direction …
You should honestly tell your partner about your feelings and thoughts. Perhaps your partner is doing nothing, because he does not know if you would like it, maybe you are afraid of the reaction? Maybe he is afraid of something else, such as whether you will be able to create a happy marriage (so many divorces now)? There is no point in hiding these feelings further, because they will increase and the resentment towards the partner will be stronger and stronger. You should talk honestly and explain this situation to yourself.
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Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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