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I've been married for 3 years, I've always wanted sex. Now it's different - we make love 4 or 5 times a month! I have heard that this can be the case after having a baby, but it's been over 2 years now and nothing has changed, quite the opposite. I do not feel the need for intercourse, maybe it will happen 2 days a month when I feel like it. My husband tries very hard, I'm stupid that he doesn't feel anything, that's why sometimes I just sacrifice myself. I am not depressed or have low self-esteem. I love my husband very much, but I don't know how long he can endure, he is a guy and he also has his needs. What should I do to make it look like it used to be?
In fact, it happens that a woman loses interest in sex after having a baby. There can be many reasons - hormonal disorders, focus on caring for the baby, fatigue, misunderstandings and quarrels with her husband. Sometimes it also happens that a woman sought intercourse before having a baby because her main goal was to have children. After the baby came, sex was meaningless. It would be worth going to a sexologist for an appointment in order to find out the cause of your problem and possibly propose appropriate treatment.
Remember that our expert's answer is informative and will not replace a visit to the doctor.
Magdalena Krzak (Bogdaniuk)
Psychologist, psychotherapist, clinical sexologist and forensic sexologist. He has a Clinical Sexologist Certificate, awarded by the Polish Society of Sexology, after completing full specialization in clinical sexology in Warsaw, and a Court Sexologist Certificate. He deals with the treatment of sexual disorders in women and men. He works both individually and with couples. She conducts psychotherapy for victims of sexual violence. He conducts diagnostics and psychological support for transsexual people.
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